To gain control, you must give it up. Therein lies the ultimate paradox. Be extra conscious that you do not act alone. Be more aware that you are a part of a master plan that includes the rest of the people in this universe. Resist those seductive thoughts telling you that you are the centre of the universe, the master of your domain. Remember, you are part of a larger picture. This enlightened consciousness will prevent your impure actions from hurting others, and allow your positive actions to increase the radiance of light in this world.